i shouldnt have left you. ok how is everyone. man i havent been on here in ages. im doing ok. the only thing is financially im in a bind. i was getting ssi checks for tj but now im not getting them anymore. but to be honest i told yamil that im going to take all his checks and worry about the bills because he i believe is still giving his mother money he is working 46 hrs a week and is still broke. so i told him that i was going to take his money. we are getting married march 3rd. im looking for a new job because im working full time hrs but they arent giving me benefits. the other day i saw hector at the mall he was waiting for an interview for a new trump building being put up here in nj. he put in a good word for me and the next day i had an interview. the guy seemed really nice. he said he would be calling people back mid feb. so we will see how it goes. should i call him first? well thats about all thats been going on. ill keep you posted.