i keep thinking of ways to tell him that im leaving him. im not the type of female to just take someones check. i cant do that because i dont want no one messing with my money. i need a man who is going to step up and be a man. take care of situations not just let me do them. in the beginning yamil said all this stuff about taking care of his family now he cant even take care of me and him. hector didnt say anything about taking care of a family until i met someone else. i text hector just about every day. i do still care about him and yes i do think of going back to him. its like i know yamil has a genuine love for me but no means of taking care of a family. hector has love for me but its like a hidden agenda kinda love but he does have the means to take care of a family. i think back on some of the earlier posts. i think ill do better by myself. but ill keep you posted.